How do we enjoy an active social life while maintaining optimal wellness? This is a question more than half my clients wonder about as it remains to be one of my greatest challenges.
For years, my style has been to detox for 30 days prior to an event or vacation, then over the span of 1-2 days, completely RE-tox. By day 3 I’m exhausted, sick and over-eating because my body is craving vitamins and minerals lost in the pool of alcohol residing in my gut that is diligently flushing out any nutrient left inside me. Plus I’m dehydrated and positively not RE-hydrating properly, just leading to more food cravings.
Have I learned the hard way? Over and over and over and over and over…. I’ve learned several lessons. The first lesson being to NOT drink right after coming off of a detox. We should wait about 3-5 days post cleanse to work more solid foods into the diet first and allow the body to neutralize. Also, start out slow. As we should never binge drink, lets be real. We’ve all over-indulged in alcohol one or more times and probably will again at some point. It is important though (first hand experience talking) to NOT over-serve yourself immediately following a cleanse because you are absorbing everything consumed much more thoroughly. Digestively speaking, alcohol gets the VIP treatment. Unlike food, there is no transit time. Within minutes, a large percentage of the alcohol is absorbed in the stomach and delivered directly to the brain. If the cleanse was successful your small intestine is absorbing and breaking down nutrients better than ever before. Add alcohol into the mix and the cell lining is damaged at a quicker pace and absorption gets blocked. Immediately we feel the aftermath, and experience symptoms of toxicity. And how dare we forget about our dear friend liver. This precious organ really takes a beating every time we decide to have more than 1 drink per hour. Our liver is working so hard to continuously metabolize fat, produce hormones and detoxify our body. If the liver is given more alcohol than it can handle in one hour (1/2 ounce) than it will spill into other parts of the body until it can finally make time to deal with the excess alcohol. This is an exhausting job and can definitely cause the liver to need rest. Our bodies are amazing beings, but we’re not mechanical. We need rest, not only physical rest, but rest from stress, certain foods, lifestyle habits and alcohol.
That being said.. What do we do? Never enjoy an adult beverage again? Absolutely not. We can have our margarita and drink it too.. I’ve sampled different types of gluten free-wheat beer (some gave me a terrible stomach ache, some I enjoyed), sake, top shelf tequila and aged bourbon. One thing I’m focusing on when I go out is to stay away from wine or sugary cocktails. Yes, I understand red wine has some nutritional benefits. If you can honestly consume ONE glass of red wine when you’re out with the girls (or guys) by all means, enjoy. However, if you’re like me and can polish off a bottle in one evening while simultaneously feeling sympathy pains for your liver as it’s working overtime in an overly toxic environment, then perhaps it’s time to shift gears.
So far my favorite cocktail has been sake and coconut water. This obviously works best at a BYOB or at home. When it comes to putting something into my body- I’ll spend a few extra dollars. Quality over quantity is key. A few of my favorite types of sake are Ginjo (served at room temp) or Honjozo (served warm). Both can be sipped and from my understanding both have a higher alcohol percentage than wine. I prefer warm sake since it takes a little longer to drink and I seem to feel the buzz more. Ginjo is nice with coconut water as a mixer if you’re looking for a cocktail, plus keep in mind you’re rehydrating while you’re dehydrating. Coconut water is loaded with electrolytes..
Another option is to look for a high end blue azul tequila. I like to order it neat with a slice of lime. After one cocktail, you should have a pretty intense buzz and not feel the urge to drink more. Plus it takes a little while to sip on tequila. There are also dozens of health benefits that come from the agave plant that tequila is obtained from. That’s why it’s important to have premium quality so you know the distillation process is minimal, the agave plant was mature enough and the tequila was aged at least 12 months.
Hot Toddy’s have always been one of my favorite cocktails. Luckily they also can be a healthier alternative as long as you keep the sweetener to a minimum. I always ask for 1/2 the honey or agave. Aside from cutting the sweetener - choose a nice bourbon or rye whiskey and you’re golden.
Gluten Free - Wheat Beer.. You can find these in more and more establishments which is phenomenal. But I can’t lie. I really just do not like beer. I’ve tasted a few nice gluten free ciders, but the carbonation makes me feel bloated. I did try a gluten-free pale ale but an hour later I was doubled over in gastro-abdominal pain. Obviously I don’t have the stomach to handle beer, so don’t let my experience deter you from sampling a few premium GF beers. Either way, I’m happy with the newest selections I’ve been introduced too.
One last lesson I’ve learned. Moderation. It’s OK to have 2 or 3 drinks/week. I’ve noticed if I allow myself to enjoy a drink sporadically throughout the week, I won’t binge drink for 2 days straight reeking havoc on every internal organ that creates my entire being. It’s all about being mindfulness and maintaining an honest, genuine intention when anything passes our lips immigrating into our intrinsic temple.